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Where do you come from?

grammy war bondsI love telling other people’s stories. I am a story-teller. The story that I usually don’t tell is my own. After returning from my family reunion there are parts of my story that I think need to be shared. And that is where I come from.

Each week I talk about these remarkable individuals who start non-profits and change our world, share about raising philanthropic children and all things inspiring. I had never really taken inventory of where or how I learned these skills…..until I took a look at those who had modeled these for me.

The photo above is a picture of my grandparents, aunt and uncle advertising that they used War Bonds for WWII. Even then they were showing their young children what was important and a way to make a difference.

My grandmother was a huge part of my life and was giving communion to “the elderly” when she was in her late eighties and “the elderly” were in their early seventies. She raised seven children who learned from her example and all of them have given of themselves through their profession or service in remarkable ways. My aunts and uncles are teachers, addiction specialist, psychologist, military counselors for returning soldiers, nuns and my retired aunt feeds the homeless daily. Each of them has used their gifts to help others.

As a result my cousins and I have all followed suit in similar ways. People always ask me how to raise philanthropic children and the answer became very clear to me this past week. Be philanthropic. It is not about telling them, it is about showing your children through your actions what is important. Using your time and gifts to make another’s life better is the best way to show our children what true philanthropy is.  It’s just that simple.

If you don’t feel you have done this yet, the beauty is that it is never too late to start. So take a look at your family tree and ask your self, “Where do I come from?” My guess is from some pretty remarkable people.

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Family

“Perhaps the greatest social service that can be rendered by anybody to this country and to mankind is to bring up a family.”

G.B. Shaw

2008 Family Reunion

I just returned from a fun weekend at our families reunion. My grandmother was an only child who always wanted a big family, well this weekend the 60 of us would have made her proud. My family’s motto is “Family first” and after seeing all of  the amazing people that I call family, I realize now more than ever, just how important that is.

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Charity Matters Quotes

“Call it a clan, call it a network, call it a tribe, call it a family. Whatever you call it, whoever you are, you need one.”

Jane Howard

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Today I am heading north for my family reunion. I come from a large clan of aunts, uncles and cousins and this weekend the sixty of us will gather, reminisce and reconnect. I am blessed to hail from such a remarkable group of people who have shown me the way, by example, in helping so many.

I hope your weekend is full of family and fun and love.

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Voluntourism

summer-volunteerIts summertime and with that means travel and family trips. Our past few summers have been filled with the kids sports activities and very small windows for travel. I’m not letting that slow me down but rather am already beginning to plan for next year.

Our oldest will be graduating high school and it seems like the perfect time for a family trip that involves voluntourism or volunteering and travel. Since I have begun my research I thought I would share it with you. My first stop was a web-site chock full of information called Voluntourism.Org where you can learn about hundreds of opportunities and how to plan your trip.

Voluntourism.Org had great recommendations for the pre-planning stages such as:

1. Do your homework

2. Ask yourself and your family what do you really want to achieve from this experience? Help others? Bond with your family? Get into a great college?

3. Choose a reputable organization to partner with

4. Involve your family in all the pre-planning process.

5. Document the experience with video, photos and journals.

There are thousands of online sources promising you and your family amazing experiences but finding reputable ones can be overwhelming. Here are a few volunteer programs that had some great endorsements:

1. Global Volunteer Network

2. Cross Cultural Solutions

3. Rebuilding Together U.S. based program that builds homes across the country

 

So whether you go now or next year, travel near or far….know that your time is your greatest gift. Think about sharing that precious resource with your family in helping another. Those are the moments that make an impact on all involved. I’m hoping I can make this happen and that perhaps you can too.

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Slice of summer

Summer is the time when one sheds one’s tensions with one’s clothes, and the right kind of day is jeweled balm for the battered spirit.  A few of those days and you can become drunk with the belief that all’s right with the world. “

 Ada Louise Huxtable

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All is right in the world today because I am enjoying my first day off this summer. I hope you can find some time to steal away to rest, relax and renew. You do so much for so many, you deserve it!

Happy Summer!

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Charity Matters Quotes

“When you live for a strong purpose, then hard work isn’t an option. It’s a necessity.”

Steve Pavlina

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Hard work is definitely my theme for the week. Celebrating the two years of work and dedication of Charity Matters anniversary, along with the hard work we have going on at the house. The beauty of summer is that when the hard work comes to an end of fridays…you can head to the beach! That is where you will find me this weekend. Celebrating my hard work and relaxing.

I hope you find some relaxation as well.

Happy Friday!

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Happy Anniversary Charity Matters!

blogaversary-signTomorrow marks the second anniversary of Charity Matters. All anniversaries are something to celebrate but when a dream becomes a reality, it seems like more than an annual recognition.  Two years ago, I set out to use my voice to make a difference. To tell the stories of small non-profits and the amazing people behind them.

I had a voice but didn’t know who was there to listen. You were. This second anniversary is as much yours as mine because you are the ones that have read almost 300 posts, you have shared them on Facebook and Twitter and emailed your friends. You stop me on the street and tell me about your favorite cause, which I love to hear. Most importantly you care, share and act.

When I began to write there were a few of you (thanks friends and family) and then there were a few hundred and today there a few thousand. So the love grows, the message spreads and more importantly there is action because of it.

Each of you have so many talents to share with the world. The more stories you read, eventually there is one that spurs you to action. That is the moment I live for. One reader was involved with fashion before being home with her children, a post on Closets for Causes inspired her to use her fashion skills to make a difference for others. Another reader boxed up all his medals to send to Medals 4 Mettle, a non-profit that gives athletes medals to seriously ill patients for inspiration. Those are the moments that show me we are all collectively making a difference, in whatever way we can.

Charity Matters is “a filter for goodness that connects people and causes that matter.” What really matters is that its working and that is because of you.  So thank you for two uplifting, inspiring and joyful years. I look forward to making a difference with you  and for you for many, many more.

 

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Can you hear me now?

Starkey Hearing foundationThe universe works in mysterious ways and I continue to be in awe of how these stories come to my attention. This one is no exception and indeed a story that needs to be heard. I have to admit I know very little about hearing loss and the deaf but I do know the story of Bill Austin and his mission is one worth listening too.

Bill Austin is a doctor who wanted to make a difference in the world and he has certainly done that. What began with making one hearing device for an elderly man turned into a business that is the leader in hearing devices. What is so incredible about this man is that it wasn’t about the business, it was about making a difference.

So, in 1984 Bill Austin and his wife,Tani, began the Starkey Hearing Foundation. Their mission, “So the World May Hear,” is about bringing understanding between people through caring and sharing. They believe caring develops trust and by sharing we find our humanity.


Today the Starkey Hearing foundation has supplied over 1,000,000 hearing devices to people suffering from hearing loss all over the globe. Albert Schweitzer’s quote, “The purpose of human life is to serve and show compassion and the will to help others.” lives thru amazing people like the Starkey’s whose purpose is heard loud and clear.

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Charity Matters Quotes

“Love begins by taking care of the closest ones – the ones at home.”
Mother Teresa

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In keeping with this weeks theme that “Charity starts at home,” I thought I would share a photo of our family a few years back, when we first moved into our house. This was the last time that we did serious home improvement. I hope this weekend finds you enjoying summer, wherever you maybe, I’ll be staying close to home.

Happy Friday Everyone!

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Charity Starts at Home

our house“Charity starts at home” is a phrase often heard mumbled by my husband from under his breath. Usually as I am dashing out to a meeting or  getting excited about a cause I care about. I chuckle and laugh it off, kiss his cheek and head on my way.  Lately, his words are echoing in my head as many projects have been neglected at home due to someone else in greater need for my time or resources.

Yet, there comes a time when his phrase rings all too true and that time is now. What does that mean? For me, it means putting my family, our home and our “projects” at the head of the line.  It means touching up chipped paint and finally gutting the original 1928 kitchen. Who still has screens in the backs of their cabinets to keep their food fresh? Answer, that would be us.

This summer I am taking my husband’s words to heart. My time and energy  will be spent focusing on our family, our long forgotten projects and being filled with gratitude for all my blessings. My parents used to have a sign in their kitchen that said,”Pardon the inconvenience, while we remodel to serve you better.” The sign was up for 40 years, remodeling or not.

I am asking you to pardon the inconvenience this summer, I will still be posting three days a week but construction may delay things a bit. Thank you in advance for being patient with me and realizing that perhaps my husband is right, Charity starts at home……sometimes.

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From trash to treasure

LANDFILL Philharmonic

 

I grew up the daughter of a trash man, as my Dad liked to call himself. Actually, my dad was recycling long before it was trendy. He was a paper recycler who started recycling in the mid-sixties until he retired a few years ago. So recycling is actually something I know a little bit about.

However, when I saw this piece, I realized that I actually knew much less about recycling than I thought.

Each week I write about people helping people in the United States. Not the environment or international causes, not because they aren’t important but with 1.7 million non-profits in the U.S. you need to whittle it down a bit. So, this story is a little out of my comfort zone but the beauty, brilliance, simplicity and hope it inspires, is not.

Enjoy….

Recycling, music and hope are universal and The Landfill Philharmonic simply made my day. I hope it does the same for you.

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The 5th of July

“I love my freedom.  I love my America.”  

Jessi Lane Adams

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I hope your 4th of July was filled with fun, family and fireworks. In honor of our great country, I thought I would take an extra day to enjoy a slice of summer. Hope you find a little time to do the same!

Happy Friday everyone!

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Celebrating the 4th

“You have to love a nation that celebrates its independence every July 4, not with a parade of guns, tanks, and soldiers who file by the White House in a show of strength and muscle, but with family picnics where kids throw Frisbees, the potato salad gets iffy, and the flies die from happiness.  You may think you have overeaten, but it is patriotism. “

Erma Bombeck

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The 4th of July is one of my favorite days of the year. Today we will be packing up the car and heading to the lake for fireworks, family , friends and fun. So forgive the lack of a larger post this week but I am taking some much needed  R & R for the next few days and I hope you get to do the same.

Happy 4th of July and God Bless America!

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Shark Attack at Childrens Hospital

paul de gelder-620x349Did that catch your attention? Well so did the inspiring man who brought his story to the children at Childrens Hospital Los Angeles last week, Paul de Gelder. Paul is an Australian Navy Seal (down under they are called Navy Clearance Divers) who was diving and lost his right arm and leg from a shark attack.

Paul’s life prior to his attack was one of extreme adventure, fun and about Paul. But as he spoke to some teen patients at CHLA. He shared what he has learned from his challenge. He recalled his naval training and the words the words he was taught, “Improvise, adapt and overcome.” How those words and the attack altered him forever.

He learned gratitude for everything, he learned to smile at everyone, he became gracious and giving. So many people had reached out to Paul and helped that he was now compelled to do the same. Paul committed to inspiring others and now his work is primarily motivating and uplifting others.

The moment that made Wednesday so powerful was when a young patient came up to Paul and shared that he had just found out he was going to lose his kidney.  He told Paul, ” I am going on a donor transplant list and dialysis and before you spoke, I was having a very bad day. But if you can improvise, adapt and overcome, than so can I. I am going to be fine.”

It was a beautiful moment and a perfect reminder of the power we all have to shift and impact someone’s life when we open ourselves up to give.

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